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Chapter 8
The Opportunities are Everywhere
Those persons who are burning to display heroism may rest assured
that the course of social evolution will offer them every opportunity.
--Havelock Ellis
In a way, this book had its beginning in a Honolulu shopping center several
years ago. My son Aaron and I had gone there one noon to watch some friends
of ours, a popular singing couple, perform at an outdoor stage.
As showtime approached, a few hundred shoppers had gathered for the
performance in a semicircle formed about ten feet from the stage and on
the second-level balcony overlooking the stage. There was a really festive
mood in the crowd, since the couple, Leon and Malia, were well-loved in
Hawaii.
A minute or two before Leon and Malia were to come onstage, it happened.
Someone on the second-level balcony dropped a box of popcorn. The box fell
into the area between the downstairs audience and the stage. It hit, fell
on its side, and some of the popcorn spilled out on the ground, messing
up an otherwise clean area.
A hush fell over the crowd as hundreds of eyes focused on the intruding
popcorn box. Though no one seemed to say anything, you could hear their
thoughts. "Must have been a hippie." "Parents should watch their children
more carefully." "Probably a tourist." The whole mood of the gathering
was destroyed in a matter of seconds.
Without thinking, I performed an antisocial act. Stepping out of the
downstairs crowd, I walked across the opening toward the stage, bent down,
scooped the spilled popcorn into the box, and carried the box to a nearby
trash can. Altogether, it probably took twenty to thirty seconds, but it
was one of the longest hours of my life.
When I stood up with the box of popcorn, I found the entire audience
staring at me. They continued staring all the way to the trash can, and
when I returned to my son in the crowd, I found myself disowned. Quickly
whispering, "Why did you do that?" Aaron moved away from me, pretending
to be with someone else in the crowd.
All told, it was an embarrassing experience for both of us, and it troubled
me for days. Essentially it came down to this: Why did I feel so bad for
doing something good? I didnít expect to be carried through the shopping
center on the shoulders of adoring followers. I didnít expect a good citizenship
medal or even applause. But why did my simple act seem so unacceptable?
That question was to stay with me and reappear.
Shortly after the Great Popcorn Caper, I found myself teaching a course
in Social Problems at a University of Hawaii summer school session. Now
summer school at the University of Hawaii is a mixed undertaking. Some
of the students enroll in summer school in order to earn the credits needed
to graduate early. Others use summer school to make up deficiencies from
the regular school year. And some students from mainland universities find
it intellectually imperative to pursue their studies in Honolulu during
the summer.
Whatever their reasons, about fifty students chose to take Social Problems
that summer. Since I had been expecting five or six students, I had to
make a number of last-minute adjustments in the course. In particular,
I decided to grade students on the basis of two multiple-choice exams instead
of the term papers and essay exams I had originally planned. After the
mid-term exam, however, I found myself with a problem.
Several students, unhappy with the grades they had gotten on the exam,
asked if they could do any additional work in the course as a way of raising
their grades. Several suggested writing term papers, and I said I would
think about it.
As I considered the prospect of wading through piles of student prose
on such uplifting topics as racism, war, rape, and mayhem, my support for
the term paper solution dissolved. Instead, I began a discussion with the
class regarding their motivations for taking a course in social problems.
Quickly we decided that simply learning about the seamy side of society
was a sick way to spend the summer. Ultimately, we concluded that the only
justifiable purpose for learning about social problems would be to solve
them. That laid the groundwork for the extra-credit course project that
several hundred students in various courses were to undertake in the years
to follow.
The extra-credit course project was simple enough to state: "Find a
social problem and fix it." The assignment was so different from anything
the students had been asked to do in a college course before that I found
I had to spell out what would not qualify:
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No credit would be given for drawing my attention to a problem I might
not be aware of.
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No credit would be given for finding out who was to blame for a particular
problem.
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No credit would be given for bitching about how bad things are.
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No credit would be given for telling me what Weber, Durkheim, or other
great sociologists would say about the problem.
Finally, it was not sufficient to attack the problem, to make a dent
in it, to give it the
"good ole college try." I warned students I would not be impressed if they
gave up all their other courses to devote their lives to the problem they
had chosen. The bottom line would always be the same: "Did you solve it?"
In this vein, I suggested they not take on world hunger, racism in America,
or the threat of thermonuclear war as their course projects.
I told them to find problems that were "social"ósomething that bothered
others as well as themselves. And as a fortunate afterthought, I told them
they couldnít get credit for solving problems they created. I told them
about the Great Popcorn Caper as an example.
The remainder of that course in social problems provided the most rewarding
experience in my career as a professor. Fifty students set out to fix the
world, and fix it they did. The result was so moving to me that I have
made it available in every course Iíve taught since then. By now, hundreds
of students have reported to me on the projects theyíve done in connection
with my courses. I want to share some of their experiences with you to
demonstrate the variety of opportunities for heroism all around us today.
One young man chose to take on a problem that actually plagues most
American cities today: potholes in the street. In his case, there was one
particular pothole. It was located at an intersection near his home, and
he said it had been there for as long as he could remember. Most of the
residents of the area had gotten accustomed to swerving around it, and
newcomers learned about it the hard way. Clearly, the pothole was not simply
an annoyance but was downright dangerous. So my student decided to do something
about it.
Impressing his brother into service, he stopped in at a hardware store
located on the intersection to buy sand and cement. Once the store owner
learned what the young men were planning to do, he loaned them a shovel
and a concrete mixer, let them use his water, and threw in his own son
as additional labor. The three young men started work.
As soon as they began filling in the pothole, several passing motorists
parked their cars and began directing traffic around the workers. Then
some passing children made up "Wet Concrete" signs to be arranged around
the pothole once the work was done. Altogether, about twenty neighbors
participated in the project. Together, they had handled a problem that
had bothered them all for years. All it took was someone who was willing
to step forward and be responsible for it happening.
Hereís a different example. One of my students explained to me that
she was somewhat disappointed by college life. She had looked forward to
making new friends at college and having a good time with them. Instead,
she said, her dorm was simply a place where strangers slept. No one seemed
to know anyone else, nor, for that matter, to care. While they might occasionally
nod to one another in the hallways, that was it. My student felt that her
disappointment was shared by others living in the dorm, and she set out
to do something about it.
Her idea was to organize a dorm cookout. She prepared posters and sign-up
sheets for the cookout and put them up in the bathrooms on each floor of
the dorm. She said she felt kind of nervous and embarrassed about doing
it, since nobody had put her in charge of the dormís social life; she also
was afraid the other residents would think the idea was hokey. Three days
later, nobody had signed up for the cookout.
What I like most about this story is that it puts the lie to our notion
about the first step being the hardest in any undertaking. Actually, the
second step is the hardest.
Since no one had signed up for the cookout, my student had every reason
to drop the idea. She had tried, after all. She went to the trouble of
making up the posters and sign-up sheets. If nobody wanted to have a social
life in the dorm, that was too bad for them. The possibilities for self-righteous
one-liners were endless. My student did something elseósomething absolutely
heroic.
Stopping another girl in the hallway, she asked "Have you seen the cookout
posters in the johns?" She had. "Iím the one who put them up. Donít you
think it would be fun to all get together for a cookout? We can get to
know each other, listen to some music, and just have a good time. Wouldnít
that be fun?" Once the other girl admitted it sounded like a good idea,
my student closed the deal: "Would you be willing to put your name on the
signup sheet?" With one name on the signup sheet, she found someone else,
enrolled her in the idea of the cookout, and got another name on the list.
After she had personally enrolled four or five girls, the tide turned.
People started signing up of their own accord. Soon, all the lists were
full. My student was getting phone calls from people volunteering to bring
records, stereos, and the like.
By the day of the cookout, most of the girls in the dorm already knew
each other. They had a glorious time together, and before it was over,
one girl had volunteered to organize an ice cream party, and another was
organizing a taco party. My student could report that her dorm now operated
like a large familyóit had become exactly what she had expected when she
arrived at college.
Itís important to recognize that something more profound than college
partying is involved in this example. Quite aside from the cookout and
other parties, the quality of life in the dorm was profoundly altered:
strangers had become family. Moreover, there is a good likelihood that
the experience of being a large family would be passed on from student
generation to generation in the dorm.
Itís also important to note that the transformation of dorm life was
brought about by one personóa young woman with no special skills in community
organization, no past history of such activities, and certainly no formal
responsibility or authority in the matter. All she possessed was the willingness
and courage to do the job.
Litter-Picking
Picking up litter seems to be the most obvious example of a social problem
that my that my students can fix, and a large percentage of the projects
report that activity. It usually comes about when a student finds a mess
that he or she doesnít like, realizes that no one else is going to clean
it up, and just handles it. Very often, they discover that itís not all
right with the rest of the world for people to take personal responsibility
for public things. Hereís a typical example.
Describe the social problem. Pollution. Went to Ala Moan Beach to
swim and get a tan with my friends. The wind started blowing and all these
paper cups, papers, and soda cans came rolling our way. My friends started
complaining in disgust.
Describe what you did. So I got up and started picking them up and threw
them way in the garbage cans.
Describe the reactions of others who saw you doing it. My friends
said I was dumb and said to leave it to the City and County to clean it
up since we were paying them for it. (I didnít tell them it was for a project.)
As for other people, they just looked at me and smiled; some just turned
away.
Or consider this young woman who also decided to pick up trash at Ala Moana
Beach Park. Reporting that she "kept picking until one section of the beach
looked as though trash had never laid eyes on the sand," she appears to
have provoked virtually every possible reaction in those around her.
Well, some of the people just smiled at me as though I was some good
samaritan doing her duty, some of the people gave me a smirk as though
I was paying for something that I had done, and some of the small kids
even followed me and picked up trash with me. But most of the people just
looked and went on with what they were doing as though they were saying
whatever turns you on!
Disbelief often strikes innocent bystanders when my students go to work.
One student decided to clean up the broken glass in a street near her houseóleft
there by an earlier auto accident. She wanted to do it so that she could
walk barefoot in the area. Enlisting her brother into the project, she
set to work with a broom and dustpan.
This one lady was planning to make a left-hand turn, and when it was
clear for her to go she just sat in the car and kept staring at us. This
other man honked his horn. And this policeman gave me a weird look.
Quite often people find that sort of behavior puzzling. If someone were
to discover you cleaning up some mess in public, they would automatically
assume: (1) you made the mess and got caught; (2) you made the mess and
got a guilty conscience; (3) you didnít make the mess, but youíre being
punished for doing something else just as bad. As a last resort, people
will be forced to assume that you must be stealing garbage. Try telling
someone that you just didnít like to look at the mess, so you decided to
clean it up. It is likely that you will produce disbelief in the person
you are talking to. "Sure, you just decided to clean it up." "Whatís really
in it for you?" "Am I on ëCandid Cameraí?"
Consider this project, somewhat similar to litter-picking:
I live on a ridge and the drive up to the top is very pretty. From
the bottom until you reach the houses, there are two rows of flowering
trees planted in front of a lava rock wall. Recently, someone wrote the
word "Kimoís" in big white letters on the wall. Every time I drove past
it, I noticed how bad it looked, and I assumed that the gardeners would
do something about it. But nobody did. I am sure they realized how bad
it looked but didnít want to get involved. My parents agreed that it looked
bad, so I got some paint thinner and a brush and took it off. I couldnít
get it all off, but if you didnít know it was there, you wouldnít notice
it. As I was brushing it off, people who drove by just looked at me and
smiled. I am sure they thought I was the one who wrote it. It really looks
much better now, and I am glad I did it.
Of course, everyone would assume that only Kimo would go to the trouble
of removing the mess. After, all Kimo made the mess. Heís the one who should
remove it. Thatís only fair and just. Why would anyone else do it? Right?
Consider the experience of a student who got fed up with all the trash
and beer bottles in the parking lot at a beach he frequented. He got out
of his car and began picking up beer bottles and trash and throwing them
in the rubbish can.
People having little parties started staring at me and one guy even
started picking up his rubbish bag. Then a funny thing happened. A cop
pulled in and everyone started to leave, because drinking alcoholic beverages
on public grounds is illegal. Anyway, the policeman pulls up next to me
and asks me what do you think youíre doing?! And I casually told him that
I was cleaning up the park. He looked at me in a funny way and told me
just to leave it and go home.
Actually, things are not quite as bad as Iíve painted them. My students
have not always gotten negative feedback for cleaning up someone elseís
mess. Iím pleased to report that there are humans among us who simply accept
responsible behavior at face value and support it. Hereís one studentís
experience:
Shortly after the extra-credit project was assigned, I had a chance
to go on a hike with the Hawaii Trail and Mountain Hiking Club into Kuliouou
Valley. I brought along a hefty garbage bag to pick up litter along the
way. I noticed litter at the beginning of the trail, so I returned earlier
from the hike than the others to pick up that litter. There were mainly
beer cans. As I started to collect the trash, another lady had also returned
early from the hike. She noticed what I was doing and pitched in, saying
"Youíre one of those rare people." I explained to her that I was doing
this for an extra-credit project. She was surprised to hear that this project
was for a sociology class rather than an environmental one. She was also
kind enough to take my picture for proof of my deed. Ultimately, we cleaned
the litter, which ended that problem hopefully for a while. Besides being
able to help clean the environment a little, I also met that little olí
lady who was also concerned about solving social problems.
Another hiker, on another hike, reports a similar experience:
I found that by picking up the rubbish the problem was no longer there.
I had just bagged a social problem. Another result was that one of my friends
saw me picking up the rubbish and decided that he could solve social problems,
too! So now there are at least two of us up there in the mountains solving
social problems.
The more I have read reports of others joining in, the clearer it has become
that most people would be willing to clean up the litter they find in public
placesóexcept for what they fear others would think of them. The social
agreements that constrain us are often just too strong. Yet, when one person
breaks through the agreements and takes responsibility anyway, that revolutionary
act suddenly makes it safer for others to do what they really want to do.
It takes courage to break with convention and assume a personal responsibility
for having the world work the way you want it to work. You just never know
how itís going to turn out. You may find yourself becoming a leader of
a social movement, a hero of social reform; or you may find yourself simply
looking silly. Thatís the risk, and itís not as trivial as it sounds when
you are simply reading about it.
Letís look at some other situations in which students have found they
can make a difference.
Neighborhood Problems
How many times have you been walking along the sidewalk and found your
way challenged by a hydraulic sentry. I know youíve run into something
like this sprinkler that a student reports was "sprinkling the lawn, the
sidewalk, and the right lane of Dole Street." What do you do in a situation
like that?
My student reports that pedestrians crossed to the other side of the
street. Motorists swerved to the left lane to avoid getting drenched by
the sprinkler. My student, on the other hand, simply moved the sprinkler.
The problem was solved and life continued.
Many are the hazards of walking along sidewalks. Once you make it past
the sprinklers, you are confronted by the branches of overgrown trees and
branches. One student suffered through this problem at the entrance to
a cafeteria on campus until finally, tired of being slapped in the face,
she decided to break off the worst branch. Two friends saw what she was
doing and joined in. Working together, they quickly had the tree trimmed
so that it didnít obstruct the walkway. When her friends thanked her for
starting the job, she asked them why they had never done it. This is her
report:
They both replied that because it bothered everyone, they expected
someone else to do something about it. It seems that people rely on someone
else to do things that would benefit everyone.
When another student found her way blocked by a small tree, she checked
it out and discovered it had been loosened by heavy rains and was on the
verge of toppling over across the sidewalk. Getting a hammer, stake, and
cord, she spent about ten minutes and anchored the tree firmly. Now she
gets to pass by her handiwork every day going to her bus stop. Every day
she gets a reminder that she makes a difference in the world.
Hereís a different, though common, bush problem:
On the corner of an intersection in our neighborhood, there was a
very tall bush. So whenever you wanted to cross the intersection, you couldnít
see if both sides were clear because the bush was blocking the view on
one side. You would have to slowly move forward, until your car was sticking
out a little in the middle of the intersection, to see. Thus, many accidents
had occurred because of this bush.
Thatís the sort of problem that people put up with forever. This time it
was different, however. This student simply got out his clipping shears
and trimmed the bush back. Now his neighbors can see when they come to
the intersection and the risk of accidents is reduced.
Sometimes you canít simply handle a problem by yourself. It may be necessary
to get someone else to handle it. Often you must get someone else to do
the job they are paid to do. Thus, numerous students report calling government
officials to have trees and bushes trimmed, abandoned cars removed, and
so forth. Often, simply placing a call to the right office will handle
it. And just as often, it wonít. Sometimes you must be doggedly persistent.
One student who lives beside a golf course reported that the overgrown
grass and weeds on the edges of the course often caught fire during dry
spells, thereby endangering nearby homes. She decided to visit the groundskeeper
at the course. She talked to him about the fire hazard. She offered to
cut the grass and weeds herself if thatís what it would take. The groundskeeper
said heíd do something, but he didnít. She returned. Still nothing happened.
She returned with her father. She kept after the groundskeeper until he
finally handled the problem, and the student now reports that the grass
and weeds are kept cut. She says this of the experience: "I realize that
the groundskeeper was aware of the problem because of the previous fires,
and undoubtedly other people probably tried to get the areas cut, but I
actually handled it. For this reason, I feel very pleased and proud." Sometimes
my students have qualms about what they have done, though they are pretty
sure they have acted appropriately. One found a problem where the traffic
department was installing traffic lights.
One pole that is not complete yet is about face high. Sticking out
of it is a five foot piece of thick wire and it blocks the whole sidewalk
at about face level. To keep from getting blinded, people are ducking under
it and around it into the street where it is a hazard to both people and
cars.
I walked under it and grabbed it from behind and twisted it away from
peopleís faces. Then I stuffed the whole thing back into the pole where
it belonged. I secured it inside so it would not come out again. The traffic
department may not be happy, but our neighborhood is.
My friends said I was a vandal.
Question: Is it unlawful to bend a piece of metal for the safety of
the people, at the expense of the Traffic Commission? I think not. It is
much cheaper to buy new wire than a new eye!
Traffic Problems
If sprinklers and tree branches are an annoyance to pedestrians, highway
obstructions can be downright dangerous. And the obstructions are many
and varied.
On a fast-moving, usually speeding road, people were suddenly braking
and tooting their horns to avoid a fallen branch in one of the lanes.
About twenty yards before the Koko Head Avenue cut-off, in the right
lane, there was a pretty big board lying right in the center, so cars were
swerving partly into the center lane to avoid it.
A two-week-old kitten was on a busy street. Lost and afraid, it just
sat there in the middle of the road. From afar, it looked like just a piece
of rubbish so other drivers before me werenít cautious upon approaching
the kitten. Only when they were a few feet away, then they realized it
was a kitten and slowed down and swerved off the road or changed lanes.
The first report was from a pedestrian. When traffic eased up, she darted
onto the highway and dragged the branch to the side of the road. Her sister
said, "Youíre weird!" The second report was from s student motorist. He
pulled to the side of the freeway, waited for a break in the traffic, and
pulled the board to the side. What makes the second story particularly
telling is that he had simply swerved and passed by the board the day before.
It was still lying there in the middle of the freeway a day laterówaiting
for someone to do something about it.
The two-week-old kitten was saved. My student pulled her car to the
side of the road, ran back, and got the kitten. Then, having no idea where
it had come from, she gave it to her cousins who had just lost a kitten.
Cousins and kitten were last reported doing well.
That kitten did better than others who wander onto the highway.
While we were camping at Waimanalo Beach Park, there was this screeching
of car tires and a big thump. My friends and I ran to the road and there
was this big puppy lying on the road. He was still moving his head and
whimpering. Cars kept coming, barely missing him. Nobody wanted to pick
up the puppy, not my friends or the other campers. I guess they were afraid
that they would get bitten or get run over by a passing car. Maybe they
could have been afraid of what other people might think. I hesitated at
first because of those reasons, but I couldnít let the puppy get run over
by another car. So I took off my jacket and wrapped my hands and went to
pick up the injured puppy. I got him to the side of the road. There was
no bleeding, but he still couldnít walk. I took him to the campsite and
after a while he started to walk, but there was a slight limp. The next
morning he disappeared.
Less fortunate are those dogs and cats who cash in altogether on the road.
Even in death, however, they present a traffic problem, with cars swerving
around them. Several students report stopping to drag dead animals off
the highway. Some have called the Humane Society afterward, others have
taken the time to bury the bodies.
Some traffic obstructions are more of an annoyance than a danger. How
many times have you found yourself trapped in traffic that is unaccountably
inching forward? Eventually, you can see up ahead that your lane is merging
into another, and thatís causing the slowdown. Finally, you reach the problem
itself: a trash can lying in the middle of the lane, or a traffic cone
thatís been knocked out of place, or a branch or board, or any of the other
obstacles my students report. What do you do in such a situation? If you
are like most people, you wait your turn in line and then, when you get
a chance, you drive around the obstacle and continue on your way.
I noticed this social problem when I was on my way to pick my husband
up from work. There was a large piece of wood lying in the middle of the
right-hand-lane, blocking that lane. As I automatically crossed over to
the left-hand side of the road to avoid it, I thought to myself that someone
should move it. A little farther down the road it hit me that I was just
as capable, if not more so since I had the chance to earn five points in
sociology, as anyone else of moving it.
On my way back home, I noticed that the wood was still blocking the
right-hand lane, so I stopped my car and picked it up.
Other students have stopped their cars and thrown trash cans off the roads.
Theyíve replaced loose manhole covers, moved beer bottles, traffic cones,
coconut trees, and so forth.
How about this situation? Have you ever been here? You are sitting in
inchworm traffic, see your lane merging to the left, and eventually you
realize thereís a stalled car in your lane causing the tie-up. What do
you do? Usually, you wait your turn, pull around the stalled car, and continue
on your way. Several students report stopping to push the stalled car to
the side of the road. Not a big project, but itís big enough to restore
the flow of traffic. The same can be said for those students who took the
time to fix traffic signs that had been bent to point in the wrong directions,
those who replanted signs that had been knocked down, and even those who
called the traffic department to get action, got none, and called again
and again until the job was done. With all the dragons slain and gone,
thatís the stuff that modern heroism is about.
A couple of us were standing at the corner of Kapiolani and Keeamoku
waiting for the crosswalk signal. I noticed the lane nearest to us was
coned, and a cone closest to the intersection had been knocked down into
the lane. This caused cars to swerve into the oncoming traffic to avoid
hitting it. When the "WALK" signal finally flashed, and with my heart pounding
in my ears, I dashed straight for the cone, uprighted it, avoided looking
at anyone and walked across as if nothing had happened.
It was outright scary, but the personal satisfaction I felt was so different
from anything Iíd every done before. I realized I had the guts to do something
that Iíd ordinarily leave for someone else to do. And, by the way, Iíll
try it again even without five points backing me up.
Buses and Bus Stops
A common problem for bus riders is messy seats. Youíve probably gotten
on a crowded bus and moved toward the unaccountably empty seatóonly to
find a puddle of water or a melted candy bar on it. Usually passengers
simply put up with such inconveniences, waiting for the bus company to
clean the seatsówhich must be at least every two weeks. Several of my students
have taken it upon themselves to wipe up the mess and make the seat usable.
Although they generally try to do it inconspicuously, they tend to report
people staring at them, and feeling embarrassed about their "good deed."
How many times have you gotten on a bus and noticed that someone had
left something behind? Maybe youíve had an experience like that of this
student, who noticed a purse lying on the seat across from her.
I thought "Iíll let someone else get up and return it to the bus driver.
Itís not my responsibility, and besides, I donít want to make a fool of
myself."
So I sat back and watched the people get on, hoping someone would turn
the purse in to the driver. To my surprise, everyone just passed by the
seat, looked at the purse, and then sat somewhere else! I thought, "Wow!
What happened to everyoneís sense of honesty and responsibility? What a
shame!" Then it occurred to me that I myself was just as guilty as the
next person for not returning the purse.
With that realization, she got up, took the purse to the driver, and returned
to her seat. " As I sat down, I didnít care what the other passengers were
thinking nor whether or not I made a fool of myself. I just felt proud
of myself for doing someone a favor."
One student had a bus problem that dragged out through the whole semester
we were together. In fact, he told me that the problem had been around
for three years before that. Living in a remote, rural area, his mother
was dependent on the bus for getting to work. Unfortunately, the bus often
passed by early, and she would arrive at the bus stop to find herself stranded.
My student asked if that constituted a social problem for the optional
project. I said he could get extra credit, but only if he actually solved
the problem.
A week later, my student reported that he had talked to the bus driver.
"Was the problem solved?" I asked. The student admitted that the bus was
still early sometimes. No credit.
Two weeks later, he proudly showed me the petition he had circulated
among the bus passengers, demanding that the bus keep to its schedule and
not pass by stops early. Nevertheless, the bus still came early at times.
No credit.
Step by step, the student persisted. By the end of the semester, he
had met with the county director of mass transportation and presented the
petition. The director later discussed the matter with the president of
the bus company, who called my student to report that he had discussed
the matter with the drivers and ordered them to stick to their schedules.
By the end of the semester, my student could report that the bus had not
been early for a month and a half. Five points.
Bus stops can be as problematic as the buses themselves. Iíve never
figured out who decides which stops get benches, but Iíve been aware all
along who keeps them functioningónobody. Thus, one student noticed the
concrete bench at his stop was covered with muddy footprints. Nobody could
use it. Finally he got a bucket of water and scrubbed it clean.
It was pretty embarrassing, but what amazed me was that some people
stared at me as if I were doing something wrong when really what I was
doing was for the benefit of everyone else who goes to the bus stop.
This girl had a pleasanter experience handling a broken wooden bench.
Unfortunately, I am not a skilled carpenter. However, with the supervision
of my father (who is quite handy) we used a few nails and it was as good
as new. Also, there was a board missing, so my father measured the others
and we replaced the missing one.
Sometimes getting others to assist you becomes a bit problematic. One student
found her social problem in the form of a large metal trash can sitting
at a bus stop. The collection of candy wrapper and soda bottles inside
had created a large colony of bees, posing a threat to everyone waiting
at the bus stop.
Since the trash can was too heavy for my student, she went to a nearby
filling station and asked an attendant to give her a hand. She reports
that he reluctantly agreed. His reluctance increased when she suggested
that they spray the can with insecticideóasking if he had any at the station.
His reluctance gave way to panic when he sprayed insecticide into the trash
can and was greeted by a massive swarm of bees.
The man himself had not been too excited about helping out in the
first place, and as he searched for the bug spray, I felt a real resentment
coming from him. At that point, I wished I could have turned and run away.
I felt a bit foolish. As we sprayed the bees and they began flying around
us, we dodged and swatted at the bees. I laughed a little bit and that
seemed to release a little of the tension. But after we had moved the trash
can, I thanked him for helping me and he just said "Yah" and walked back
to his desk. I was glad when my bus came and I could leave that scene.
Public Toilets
Buses and bus stops may get messy, but they canít compare with public
toilets when it comes to opportunities to make a difference in the world.
Undoubtedly, our embarrassment over body wastes makes it worse. Itís bad
enough to have people see you clean up a messy bus seat, but imagine how
it would feel to do the same in a public toilet. Several of my students
no longer have to imagine what it would be like.
Several students have found themselves waiting in line for a toilet,
only to discover everyone avoiding one of the stalls. Usually, the problem
is that the toilet is unflushed and looks generally disgusting. The problem
can often be solved by someone simply flushing the offending toilet. But
what an embarrassing thing to do! Itís no wonder that people stand in line
rather than face that embarrassment. You have to admire someone whoís willing
to overcome that embarrassment. But how many people do you know who will
go to these lengths?
I went to Kahala Mall to do my Christmas shopping. After a few hours
of shopping, I wanted to use the restroom. When I located the restroom,
several ladies were waiting in line for their turn. Only two of the three
toilets were occupied. I took a look at the third toilet. It was plugged
up with toilet paper and sanitary napkins. The water was up to the rim
of the bowl. The floor was wet and slippery.
I borrowed a plunger from maintenance and used it to drain the toilet,
after removing the sanitary napkin and some toilet paper clumped together
with a hollow pipe which I found conveniently placed in the restroom.
When I used the plunger to fix the toilet and cleaned the floor with
paper towels, I could sense the "eyes" the ladies were giving me. When
I finished cleaning, I looked at the ladies and they gave me the weirdest
look. I did get the feeling that they thought I was the culprit for the
mess, so I was cleaning it.
If you found yourself getting a little queasy reading that report (I did),
then you know exactly the feeling that keeps us from every doing anything
about problems like that. Itís the same when someone gets sick and throws
up in a public bathroom. One student said that happened in his dormitory,
so he decided to clean it up.
Those who didnít know I didnít do it laughed politely when they saw
me, some snickered quietly. One guy said "Ugh. Gross!" Some who knew I
didnít do it said, "How come you gotta clean ëem up?" or just laughed nervously.
One guy said, "Alright!" Some people just came in, did their business and
rushed out.
Why did he clean it up if he didnít make the mess? Was it the five points?
That probably helped, but I especially liked the studentís concluding comment:
"It wasnít as hard to clean as it looked, and it was easier to clean than
to spend a day smelling and seeing that stuff."
Dormitory bathrooms have other problems. Two have been reported as often
as anything else. Wet counters are an annoyance; you can get your shirt
wet just looking in the mirror. Several students report buying sponges
and leaving them on the counteróand they report good results. Water on
the floor, usually from flooded showers, is more than an annoyance; itís
a hazard. Several students have unclogged drains, others have gotten janitors
to do it. One student spread his newspaper on the floor to soak up the
water. The janitor cleaned up the paper but didnít fix the drain. The next
day, my student spread his paper out again. This continued several days
until the janitor finally agreed to fix the shower. General cleaning, however,
is the staple in this genre. In case youíd like to experiment with this
one, hereís a checklist for you to follow:
I cleaned the floors of rubbish, made sure the trash cans were neat
and in place, replaced toilet paper rolls, made the stalls neat and even
flushed the unflushed toilets. I also dusted the tile shelf. This was a
first-time experience for me and of course I felt conspicuous. Because
of the people, I felt embarrassed but did my best to ignore the weird faces
and stares. Some girls whispered to their friends, shrugged their shoulders,
and went off laughing. That was a little discouraging. But then there was
one lady who was concerned and asked me why Iím doing all this when the
janitors have that duty. After I explained, she praised the project and
wished me good luck. I made that rest room look ten times better and Iím
proud of myself. In spite of what I had to go through, it feels good inside.
Living Together
Dormitory life has problems even when the toilets are working. If youíve
ever lived in group quarters, youíll find some of these problems familiar.
Communal kitchens arenít cleaned, lounge furniture gets messed up, and
thereís noise, noise, noise.
We have to put up with lawn mowers outside as early as seven oíclock
in the morning and trucks that have bells that ring when they back up as
early as six-thirty. At night, people are yelling and music is blasting
as late as midnight.
Conversations with the dormitory staff, the head resident, and the student
housing office handled most of this studentís problems. The lawn mowing
was rescheduled, quiet hours were enforced, and the truck bellsÖwell, he
learned to love the bells. He concludes, "The major part of the noise problem
is now solved and my dormitory is now quiet and all two hundred of us have
benefited from my actions."
There is no end to the variety of noises hassling dormitory residents.
I loved this report and the way the student described handling it.
The social problem that I was faced with involved the dreadful sound
of the bathroom door in our dorm. The cause was that one of the sheets
of plywood that comprises the two sides of the door was slowly breaking
loose at the top corner of our door. Thus, whenever the door was opened
or closed, it got caught on the door frame, making an irritating noise.
To solve this problem, I first got a thumbtack to pin the piece of wood
down, but that didnít seem to solve the problem. So instead, I asked around,
found a nail, and hammered it in with my door stopper.
Another student was troubled by "a squeaky trash chute door that wakes
us up and disturbs our sleep." This student got some oil and oiled the
hinges on the chute door. Then he did something quite common in the reports
students give.
I figured if this was a problem to our one floor, the other apartment
residents on the other floors must have experienced the same problem. I
went to the other twelve floors and did the same for each of the trash
chute doors.
Although I suggest that my students fix things because they want them fixed,
not as a righteous "good deed," the real satisfaction is usually reported
in terms of the impact the project has for others. Having things the way
you want them is a fair and just payoff for your efforts, and seeing the
value youíve provided others is a powerful bonus. Thus the student who
was bothered by a door that wouldnít stay open searched around to find
a doorstop for it. Just as she put it in place, another dorm resident came
by with her arms full and obviously appreciated my studentís project. She
concludes, however, "I noticed several other doors that had previously
always been closed were now kept open with a doorstop."
Another student faced the difficulty of taking and getting messages
via communal telephones. Finally, she "decided to buy message pads for
each telephone on my floor and also pens to go with the message pads."
Cautiously she also left a note with each, asking the girls to leave the
pads and pens by the phones. She reports the project worked fine. People
are getting their messages now, and she concludes, "I see my pink message
slips on a lot of doors."
Very often, dorm residents face the problem of all wanting to do something
but each being afraid to be the first. Once one person steps forward, the
rest follow. This student shared a bathroom with ten or twelve others,
and she reports that each of them trucked their "towels, shampoo, conditioners,
toothbrushes, toothpastes, soap, etc.) back and forth to the bathroom every
time they used it.
Itís a problem when youíre all wet and have to lug all this stuff
back to your room and when you drop things and bend over to pick them up
and your towel falls off right when a guy just happens to be walking down
the hall.
Is that whatís bothering you? The solution was obvious to my student. The
girls should all leave their stuff in the bathroom, with the consequent
danger of theft. My student took the lead and left her stuff in the bathroom,
convincing her roommate to do the same. After a couple of days, a few others
had done the same, but the idea didnít really catch on. So she started
talking to the other girls on a one-to-one basis, inviting them to just
trust each other.
The first time I did it, a girl who saw me asked me if I wasnít afraid
someone might come and steal my expensive shampoo and conditioner. I just
replied that I thought everyone I met on the floor so far seemed really
nice and honest and if someone actually did grab my stuff, they probably
needed it more than I did.
She reports that the project is now working well. She, too, concludes by
commenting on the impact it had on others. "They had made a decision to
trust and it felt good. It also gave them a good feeling to be trusted
and I seriously doubt that anyone will get ripped off."
The Opportunities Are Everywhere for Everyone
It should be clear by now that my students have had no trouble finding
opportunities for heroism in the modern world. But donít let yourself slip
into thinking this is just something for college students taking a sociology
course. Over the years, most of the people I have described the project
to have later reported to me about situations they found themselves in-óhere
they were able to try out a little social responsibility to see how it
worked.
From time to time, I receive letters from students who didnít do the
project during the classóbut did so subsequently. For example, one of my
summer school students, Maureen, later wrote to say, "Last September when
I returned to teaching in St. Louis, my ësomebody should do something about
thatí situation hit me in the face." The problem was parking. "You should
have heard the grumbles every morning as people entered the building complaining
about searching for a space in which to park!" Maureen decided to take
on the problem.
She went first to the principal, who described all his past ineffective
efforts to solve the problem. Next she discussed the situation with the
union representative in the building, receiving more explanations of why
nothing could be done about the problem. Undeterred, Maureen wrote to the
president of the unionís local chapter. Her letter was forwarded to the
superintendent of public schools, who ordered an investigation of the situation.
As soon as the weather permitted, a portion of a huge school yard was paved,
and the teachers were soon parking in a fenced parking lot. Maureen summarized
her feelings. "Itís nice to know as a ëlittle personí I do count."
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